Today we went to the doctor for our 37-1/2 week check up. I have not dilated anymore which was a bummer to me, I wasn't surprised by this news but I was hoping and wishing he was going to come on his own. He did my examination and it was not a comfortable one at all. He pushed really hard this time when checking my cervix and then he did this finger move that hurt like hell. I said "ouch" because it truly hurt. Then when I sat up I told him that it hurt this time and that I was cramping really bad. He said "yah, you'll be ok, Sorry about that". So on our way out of the office I went to give my urine sample as I do every week and when I went to do so I saw I saw that I was bleeding pretty bad. This totally freaked me out since I haven't bleed since I was 8 weeks pregnant. I did the sample then went out to tell him I was bleeding. He looks at me and says "yah I know, I did that to you, It will be fine". So I looked at him, made a joke and was on my merry way! Only it wasn't very merry because I was in pain. I felt like I was having really bad period cramps. I talked with my mom and bf and both of them confirm that he scraped my cervix or "stripped my membrane" whichever term is correct.
He didn't tell me that he did that but he must have because I very definitely remember him making two sweeping motions from side to side and it was painful. My last internal exam did not feel like that.
So my bf tells me that a few of her friends have had that and they both went into labor on there own withing 24-48 hours. But that its not a sure thing, its sort of 50/50 chance. So I get all excited at the thought that we still have a chance to have him on our own without getting induced. I doubt it will work but it would be so amazing if it does and we don't have to be induced. I just can't believe nobody told us that he did that? Shouldn't they tell you that sort of thing? I mean I've felt crampy and just plain crappy all day now since then.
I went to work, Filled everyone in on the inducing situation and came to find out everyone has a pole going to see when Cooper will come and how much he will weigh. I got in on that little bet myself. I guess Wednesday at 3:00 pm and he will weigh 5lbs 5oz. Anyways all the money people gave to be part of the bet goes to Cooper. So we can start him a little bank account right away. I like that, its a cute idea.
Needless to say, I'm still not having contractions that are real. I'm still having those false labor contractions and I don't feel like he's coming in the next two days. So the inducing is probably going to happen. Which is fine and I'm so excited to meet my baby boy that I'm just so happy its so soon. But at the same time I would love for him to come on his own. Either way we are so excited to meet him and see him, I JUST CAN'T WAIT.
Oh and in case anyones curious, the reason we are being induced is because he is still so small and although he's growing his growth has slowed down to nearly a stop so it would be best for him and his safety to get him out and let him grow on the outside. He should be fine once he's out. So instead of letting him get all stressed they are taking him while he's a safe weight and still healthy. I hope he's healthy! Please God help our baby boy to be healthy and well mentally and physically. Please bring us through this safely!
Hopefully sometime this weekend my water will break or I'll start contracting for real but as of right now, nothings happening. So if not then next Wednesday is the magical day I will meet my son. I am so grateful for that day whatever day it may be.
Can't wait to share pics with you girls. Thanks for all the support always ladies.
I am posting a picture of me from Tuesday night. It may or may not be the last before I have him.
Have a great weekend.
28 comments:
This is wonderful news girl! Hopefully he will be coming very soon! You never know, just because your not feeling any contractions doesn't mean that there or won't come all at once! You look amazing and your attitude is stunning! This just shows how wonderful of a Mommy your going to be! I hate that the Doc hurt you today (those visits are always so uncomfortable while preggo so I can't imagine that too) but hopefully it will get labor progressing!!
How exciting!! It'll be soon :-) You look amazing!
You are looking wonderfully huge and ready for baby. Maybe you should sleep with a towel next to the bed just in case! A little positive thinking might be all his needs to start his own party!
My doctor stripped my membranes and I was crying. It hurt so bad, but I was already in labor, he just wanted to make it progress faster..and it did.
Sorry you have been in so much pain, that is NEVER fun! I hope he comes in the next couple days on his own, to meet everyone.
Best of luck with delivery and keep us posted!
I hope your little boy arrives soon! I did not know about the scraping the membrane thing and it sounds awful! I hear you about the bleeding being scary and I hate seeing it even when they keep telling me that it's normal and not to worry. I hope everything goes well for you this coming week!!!!
I had the same thing happen to me at my 39 wk appt and ended up going into labor a few hrs later! And yes - very painful!! All will work out great - don't worry! You'll meet your little man very soon!
Such exciting news...can't wait to hear of little Cooper's arrival and see pictures of your precious baby boy.
Will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers that all is safe with his delivery.
Blessings,
Valerie
few more days girl!! wow. i cant believe it, its really flew by since i started reading your blog!! May God Bless this precious baby boy that is about to join your life!! I'm soo excited for you.
Well look at that date :) I bet you will go before then. I went in a Monday the 2nd and my Dr. stirred things up as she called it which is scrapping the membranes. I was only dilated to about a 2 and the mixing of the membranes didn't hurt to bad. I went into the hospital on Friday and had Alex Saturday morning. They started to induce me but only had to to 2 out of the 3 pills and labor took place on its on.
So hopefully this will work for you and your delivery will be smooth. We will be thinking about you.
oh man that does sound painful! thank you so mcuh for your encouragement this past week ( and way before that too of course!)
will be praying for you and for baby boy to come out so we can all meet him! Although of course no one is as anxious for that as his beautiful mama!
You look amazing and will be in our prayers for a hhappy beautiful delivery !!!!
i am soo excited. Can't wait to see the little man. I will be praying for you and baby Cooper.
I am so excited for you! I plan on coming up there to see all of you! Love you and can't wait to meet your sweet little boy!
Wow, can you believe that the time has finally come? Within just a few days you will be holding your precious little boy. I am so sorry that the doctor did that to you without telling you. That is wrong in all senses but I don't even want to go there right now. Just rest as much as you can and get ready for Wednesday...that is unless he decides to come sooner. Can't wait to see him in photos!!
Oh honey...ouch is right. I had forgotten about that until I just read your post and you reminded me. I remember almost tearing up, it was so uncomfortable and painful. BOO to those last few Dr. appts! BUT yay to a date for Mr. Cooper to enter the world!!! I just can't wait to see how cute he's going to be! Hang in there, we're praying for you and a healthy little angel!!
So excited for you! Sorry it was so uncomfortable at your visit. Will mark my calendar and can't wait to see updates once he's here!! Best wishes with the last few days :)
you got the most perfectly shaped baby belly :) glad to hear the end of pregnancy is near and little baby will be in mama's arms soon! Stay strong!!!
How exciting!!!!!!! You look great girl!!! Enjoy these last few days, catch up on some rest and relax~!!!! You are about to go through the most amazing moment of your life!!I am so excitied for you!! I will be praying for a safe and healthy labor and delivery and sweet baby boy!!!
I am so excited for you! I will say some prayers for a safe and quick labor and delivery for both of you! I can't wait to see pictures of Baby Cooper!!!!
This is so exciting! I still can't believe your Dr. did that without telling you what he was doing. Thats sounds not fun and hope you start feeling better!
Can't wait for you to meet Cooper soon! Praying for you guys!
You look beautifully big!! It definitely sounds like he stripped your membranes. I had mine stripped and unfortunately didn't go into labor until a week later...but I've heard many that do go in sooner! But I can tell you that I thought the membrane stripping was ultra painful and wayyy worse than real labor contractions!
Hang in there...either way, it won't be long now!
Good luck tomorrow!!!! I can't wait to hear about it!
I have a feeling that you went before the 16th?! I could totally be wrong but I've had you on my mind a lot today for some reason and wasn't even thinking about 16th actually being TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!
Ahh, I'm so excited for you =) This is going to be the most amazing and wonderful moment of your life! Sending lots of love and prayers your way!
Loves&hugs,
Paige & Charli Beth!
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and also said a little prayer for you and Cooper. I can't wait to meet him! I hope you're doing well!!!!
xoxoxo
Love ya~Michelle
Can't wait to see pictures of that little guy!! I had you in my prayers all day yesterday!!! Hope all is well.
Can't wait to meet Cooper! Hope all went well yesterday! :)
you are a mommy by now..yipee! cant wait to hear all about it and see pictures!
I'm certain that you are enjoying your new bundle of joy as I type! I can't wait to see little Cooper!
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